Sister%20Jesme This is a touching story because I can relate to this on a personal level without saying much, I want you dear reader to Pray for this sister and use her as a point of contact to reach other sisters who are been molested in any way across the Globe. I Pray that the Lord will guide sister Jesme and show her what true love in Christ really means for I can see and feel her hurt and pain and believe me she cannot say everything she suffered for the shame of it (sigh) Read on

 A former nun’s tell-all story which details illicit relationships, sexual harassment and bullying in the convent where she spent three decades is causing ructions in the Catholic Church in the south Indian state of Kerala.

In Amen – an autobiography of a nun, Sister Jesme says when she became a nun she discovered priests were forcing novices to have sex with them.

There were also secret homosexual relationships among the nuns and at one point she was forced into such a relationship by another nun who told her she preferred this kind of arrangement as it ruled out the possibility of pregnancy.

“I did not want to make this book controversial. I want to express my feelings and to explain what happened to me … I want people to know how I have suffered,” she said, speaking from the town of Kozhikode.
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She also alleges that while senior staff turned a blind eye to the actions of more experienced nuns, novices were strongly punished, even for minor transgressions.
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When she resigned as a college principal, she claimed convents had become “houses of torture”, saying: “The mental torture was unbearable. When I questioned the church’s stand on self-financing colleges and certain other issues, they accused me of having mental problems. They have even sent me to a psychiatrist. There are many nuns undergoing ill-treatment from the order, but they are afraid of challenging it. The church is a formidable fortress.”

The allegations are not the only controversy to rock the Catholic Church in Kerala. Last summer, a 23-year-old novice committed suicide and left a note saying she had been harassed by her Mother Superior.

Reports suggest there have been a number of similar suicides. And in November, police in Kerala arrested two priests and a nun in connection with the killing of Sister Abhaya in a notorious 1992 murder.

Last night, a spokesman for the Syro-Malabar order of the Catholic Church, Dr Paul Thelakkat, dismissed Sister Jesme’s allegations as a “book of trivialities”.

“It’s her experiences, but these are things that might creep into a society of communal living,” he said. Asked if the church would be shocked by the allegations, he replied: “Absolutely not. The church knows about these things.Bookshops throughout India’s Christian communities in Kerala have already sold out of Amen, the autobiography of Sister Jesme, who has alleged that priests and nuns not only broke their vows of celibacy with each other but regularly forced novices to have sex with them.

The Catholic Church in India is mired in a series of sexual controversies, and has only just begun to recover from the dismissal of a senior bishop who “adopted” an attractive 26-year-old female companion as his “daughter”.

The book by the former nun reveals how as a young novice she was propositioned in the confession box by a priest who cited biblical references to “divine kisses”. Later she was cornered by a lesbian nun at a college where they were teaching. “She would come to my bed in the night and do lewd acts and I could not stop her,” she claims.

When she was sent to Bangalore to stay with a priest known for his piety, he lectured her about the need for “physical love” and later assaulted her.

"People say that everything is OK, but I was in the convent and I want them to know what goes on. I have concerns for others."

Sister Jesme, who quit last year as the principal of a Catholic college in Thrissur, alleges senior nuns tried to have her committed to a mental institution after she spoke out against them.

In her book, she says that while travelling through Bangalore, she was once directed to stay with a purportedly pious priest who took her to a garden "and showed me several pairs cuddling behind trees. He also gave me a sermon on the necessity of physical love and described the illicit affairs that certain bishops and priests had". The priest took her to his home, stripped off his clothes and ordered her to do the same.

She was not allowed to go home after she learnt her father had died. "I was able to see [the body of] my father barely 15 minutes before the funeral," she writes. "The [response] of the superiors was that the then senior sisters were not even lucky enough to see the bodies of their parents."

- Source: Indian nun claims sex is rife Source: Nasty habits: nun’s sex and torture tell all, Andrew Buncombe, The Independent via the New Zealand Herald, Feb. 20, 2009 — Summarized by Religion News Blog

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5 Responses to “Nun Talks about Sex and Torture in Convents”
  1. Lori Laws says:

    Hi Hanna, what an alarming article! I will definitely pray for this sister. There is so much suffering going on behind closed doors…it breaks my heart. How it must break our Father’s heart.

    Your new website is fabulous! All to the glory of God!
    I’ve been extremely busy, and haven’t been active in “blogworld” for some time. Hoping to visit often. Blessings to you!

    • IJ says:

      @Lori Laws, You bet sister ALOT is going on behind closed doors, my junior sister had to come confess to me that one of my husbands best friends assaulted her but( could not rape her) the painful thing about it is that my baby sister is 27 years old and this thing happened when she was like 15-17 and she is only telling me now…. in some ways she said she thought if she tells me I wouldn’t support her for the man was taunting her that i WAS GOING TO BEAT HER UP and not believe her , “typical abuse line”.

      I know I have gone through the same for many occasions but imagining my baby sister passing through same broke my heart so I know what this means a lot

      Keep Praying for all woman not just those in convents,for this is not serving as a portal to bash the Catholic Church for in so much as they have done some bad they have also done some good too.

      Godbless

  2. Bola Oluyemi says:

    So glad to be here! Praise be the Lord for this wonderful blog, may his grace and presence continue to abide here in Jesus name.

    Such a pity about that nun.I have heard such things do go on from a cousin who attended a catholic sec school as a boarding student. You know that it’s just by his grace that a lot of xtians are still standing, the devil love capitalising on the forbidden.He makes it taste better and once into it, recriminations make it harder to be free. Thank God for that sister, she has taken a bold step and i pray that the good Lord keep her from falling.

  3. IJ says:

    Amen sis Bola, So sad to hear of your cousins story I also went to a missionary College and believe me in as much as I grew closer to God there, I also learnt some terrible stuff in my life that I had to deal with for years until Jesus set me free. . . that is why I know that God is forgiving and I wonder how a man can claim to be Spirit filled and yet live a sinful life I know I have been there

    God Bless

  4. leni says:

    STOP THIS SHIT HERE. I am a catholic and i know what priest and nun are, so please spilling venom on us. Let the lord show u light

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